As far as we could tell, Dean Tien considered students to need to evolve up a few steps to qualify as gunk to scrape off the bottom of her shoe. If she had an ounce of empathy in her body, it would have resold like the car owned by the little old lady who only drove it to go to church on Sundays.
She seemed to be of the opinion that the appropriate way to deal with a student who was dropping out due to the consequences of a stress breakdown was to bully-browbeat said student into tears.
I believe she was also the one who told some of us who asked for assistance for how to visit a friend in the hospital something along the lines of, "Oh, don't worry about her. She wasn't tough enough to make it here, so people like you shouldn't be thinking about her."
At Bryn Mawr, Dean Tidmarsh is also my own dean, and she's a friendly lady. I don't understand bitchy administrators, I really don't. (*cough* Like Mrs. Boucher, who was IB coordinator at RM from 2000-2003 and was none too kind to my friends who wanted to leave the program) Do they get some kind of weird power trip by treating students like pond scum?
My pet theory is that some people like having the ability to be sadistic to people who have no real recourse, and so seek out positions where they can do so.
That, or she was a redcap. (Changeling: the Dreaming reference.)
Ugh. Ugh, ugh, ugh. Both for the stupid telephone people (I get them too) and for the dean. I loved my Dean, but then Pam Daniels was a reasonable human being who listened to your problems and actually attempted to find solutions.
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She seemed to be of the opinion that the appropriate way to deal with a student who was dropping out due to the consequences of a stress breakdown was to bully-browbeat said student into tears.
I believe she was also the one who told some of us who asked for assistance for how to visit a friend in the hospital something along the lines of, "Oh, don't worry about her. She wasn't tough enough to make it here, so people like you shouldn't be thinking about her."
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At Bryn Mawr, Dean Tidmarsh is also my own dean, and she's a friendly lady. I don't understand bitchy administrators, I really don't. (*cough* Like Mrs. Boucher, who was IB coordinator at RM from 2000-2003 and was none too kind to my friends who wanted to leave the program) Do they get some kind of weird power trip by treating students like pond scum?
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That, or she was a redcap. (Changeling: the Dreaming reference.)
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