I am ... complicated, emotionally, right now, with the full force of all of this.
At the point where you start to get a handle on that, she will change, and you will have new complicated emotions to tangle with.
This stage lasts about three years. After that, you regain something like stability. It will be a different flavor of stability from what you knew before KJ. Parents will recognize the difference; non-parents will occasionally give you odd blank stares or uncomfortable frozen smiles.
(Bleeding is going okay? Your med-techie people are not concerned? I had bleeding for less than two weeks, both times, and it was never worse than a really bad period. Had friends who had bleeding issues for a couple of months & had to take weird nutritional supplements & other meds to stop losing iron.)
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Date: 2009-09-14 04:58 am (UTC)At the point where you start to get a handle on that, she will change, and you will have new complicated emotions to tangle with.
This stage lasts about three years. After that, you regain something like stability. It will be a different flavor of stability from what you knew before KJ. Parents will recognize the difference; non-parents will occasionally give you odd blank stares or uncomfortable frozen smiles.
(Bleeding is going okay? Your med-techie people are not concerned? I had bleeding for less than two weeks, both times, and it was never worse than a really bad period. Had friends who had bleeding issues for a couple of months & had to take weird nutritional supplements & other meds to stop losing iron.)
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