I'm not sure what being nonreligious has to do with it. :} I mean -- I'm poly, that's transgressive in mainstream; I don't consider it 'about sex', which is transgressive in polyamory, I do heirarchy, which raises some people's hackles, and so on. I transgress by being a woman who doesn't behave according to miscellaneous standards of womanhood. I transgress by adopting certain adjectives or not. And so on.
You reading a.p. at the moment? There was a brief subthread about whether or not the point of kink was to be abnormal that was part of why I wound up writing this.
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Date: 2006-01-12 04:01 pm (UTC)You reading a.p. at the moment? There was a brief subthread about whether or not the point of kink was to be abnormal that was part of why I wound up writing this.