...is a three day delay in knowing how you feel a common neuroatypical thing? Because that's totally me in many cases; I learned early on that in any major relationship change I need to not make binding statements before three days. That's how long it takes me to figure out if I'm mad or fine with this, heh. It's like there's a whole long cycle that goes "Crisis response: be super calm! Triage! Figure out what can or cannot be saved! Then, much later, have feelings about it."
That is a pretty excellent self-referential self-referent there, heh.
I think alexithymia is more common among ND folks (I hear it more for autistic but I wouldn't be surprised by others as well) but not exclusively so.
My timelapse varies and has gotten a lot shorter over time (first and second passes) but also "but actually, this is going on" is totally a thing that happens long after things are 'resolved' and I should absolutely take up using divination as a tool to hack the alexithymia.
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I got Justice today as my one card draw and I thought it was appropriate.
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That is a pretty excellent self-referential self-referent there, heh.
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My timelapse varies and has gotten a lot shorter over time (first and second passes) but also "but actually, this is going on" is totally a thing that happens long after things are 'resolved' and I should absolutely take up using divination as a tool to hack the alexithymia.
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Three days strikes me as doing really well.
There are things I'm still trying to figure out twenty years later.
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