Unfortunately I think when you're learning about each other and all that, stuff like this often comes with the territory. At first we could not work together or co-front either, but gradually we worked it out so we could. Not to say that you HAVE to do something like that of course, just saying that if it's something you think would help, it gets easier as things go along. Your husband sounds like a nice guy. Does he make you brownies and stuff? If so he is even nicer!

Now the other situation is differnet of course. Does your boyfriend know about Silver? Naturally it really does help if other people are patient and understanding during times like this, like if they understand that it's someone who CAN'T speak to them, not that you're trying to give them the silent treatment or something. It really does get frustrating doesn't it? But good luck! From all of us!